A Night to Remember
What a really affirming night last
night! J was down in MA but insisted I
get out yesterday evening on my own.
Although it seems unlikely, I've not headed out to a bar/restaurant on
my own to date. I know all the folks
there anyway and it was amazing how very "at home" they all made me
feel. After chatting for a while, one of
the guys I know there even asked if I would be comfortable on my own if he headed on
home, which I thought was very
considerate. Other women took notice after he left and
with concern that J was not there and went out of their way to stop by or sit with me
to chat. I ended up cackling so much that
I lost track of time to order food when the kitchen shut down. The owner happened to be coming by and overheard my
disappointment and so went down to the kitchen to whip something up for
me. Bringing dinner to me, he then
proceeded to sit down for a good talk.
Ultimately it turned out to be a Girls Evening entirely at the tail end
of the night after all the guys left and we closed the place down for the
night. We just had some wonderful talk both casual and girl. I even got a text from my friend
who is bartender there as she wanted to know I got home alright. She knows the roads are empty up here save
for the variety of wandering wildlife and always seems to be watching out for
me whenever I'm in there. It's all in
line with the sort of thing she does, like always introducing me to new people
there and in helping assimilate and break the ice with a number of folks. Some know I am trans. Some don't.
The folks who do don't "out" me to anyone else there and are very protective of my. It's all just TOO cool for words to describe!
Stories like this reaffirm my faith in humanity.
ReplyDeleteI can't express in words how happy this made me, or how happy I am for you!